Break the itch-scratch cycle. This part explains other things you can do when you notice your itchy skin instead of scratching.
Did you write down the times and places you were most itchy?
How did noticing and recording your scratching go last week?
This week we will look at things you can do instead of scratching.
Recap of part 2
In order to break the cycle of scratching, we need to do something else. This next part will give you some ideas about other things you can do.
1) Make a fist for 15 seconds
(imagine you are squeezing a sponge and the water is running through your fingers).
2) Think about a happy memory or do some deep breathing while 'squeezing the sponge'.
3) When you're done - are you still feeling itchy?
4) If you are, repeat the squeezing the sponge activity.
5) Keep going until the itchy feeling goes away or improves.
You can also think of putting your nails away by making a fist or imagining you are like a cat;
Turn your claws in into...
Turn your claws in into...
Paws
Take a deep breath in through your nose and push it down into your tummy.
Then hold it for 3 seconds.
Then breathe out of your mouth slowly.
You can use your hand to focus your breathing.
Put one hand up in front of you.
Use a finger on your other hand to trace around it.
As you go up each finger breathe in slowly...
As you go up each finger breathe in slowly...
and as you go down the finger breathe out slowly.
As you go up each finger breathe in slowly...
and as you go down the finger breathe out slowly.
As you go up each finger breathe in slowly...
and as you go down the finger breathe out slowly.
As you go up each finger breathe in slowly...
and as you go down the finger breathe out slowly.
As you go up each finger breathe in slowly...
and as you go down the finger breathe out slowly.
As you go up each finger breathe in slowly...
and as you go down the finger breathe out slowly.
As you go up each finger breathe in slowly...
and as you go down the finger breathe out slowly.
Think about a happy memory or a place that makes you feel good - like the beach.
Sing a song or listen to some music. You could try tapping along to the beat.
Dance...
Jump up and down...
or play catch.
If you feel bored or need to do something with your hands use a fidget toy such as a...
Fidget spinner
Stress ball
Blue tack
Fidget popper
Keep doing this until the scratchy feeling goes away.
Fidget spinner
Stress ball
Blue tack
Fidget popper
This video shows you a range of commonly used fidget toys. But you can use anything you have around the house already.
Click to start watching
Thinking about each of your 5 senses can help you to stop thinking about your itch.
Lets see what you can see, touch, hear, smell, and taste.
5 Things you can see.
Maybe you can see the ceiling, some trees, your bed. What colour are they?
4 Things you can touch.
Maybe you can touch your clothes, your hands, a chair. What texture are they?
5 Things you can see.
5 Things you can see.
4 Things you can touch.
3 Things you can hear.
Maybe you can hear a bird, a ticking clock, or the traffic outside. Are they loud or quiet sounds?
2 Things you can smell.
Maybe you can smell your clothes, soap, or scents in the air. Is there something nearby you can smell?
5 Things you can see.
4 Things you can touch.
3 Things you can hear.
1 Things you can taste.
What does the inside of your mouth taste like? Can you taste something you have eaten today?
2 Things you can smell.
5 Things you can see.
4 Things you can touch.
3 Things you can hear.
Now think about when you scratch,
What can you do to stop yourself scratching?
Try some of these ideas and see if they help.
If you scratch when you are stressed...
try doing something to relax.
If you scratch when you are watching television, this may be a sign that you are bored...
try doing something else with your hands.
If you scratch when you are feeling angry...
try doing something that makes you calm.
If you scratch when you feel sad...
try doing something that makes you feel happy.
Once you know the times and reasons you scratch you can change what you do.
When trying out these ideas to stop you from scratching, it is important to still notice how often you are actually scratching.
Your scratching diary can help you do this.
If you have a bad day and find yourself scratching a lot, don’t worry, try again the next day.
Follow the same steps as Part 2 to track how many times you scratch, but this time try using out some of the ideas we have discussed to reduce your scratching.
Step 1: Decide a time you will record your scratching and how long you will record for.
Step 2: Use a clicker counter (or a clicker counter app) to record how many times you scratch while you try some of the ideas we have discussed.
Step 3: At the end of your time recording, use your scratching diary to record how many times you scratch and the situation you were in.
Recognise when your child manages a tricky situation well.
Try not to say "stop scratching" to your child.
Do not expect them to suddenly stop scratching; it takes time to change behaviours.
If you notice your child scratching, you can move the hand that is scratching and give them a fidget toy or a hug!
Also give lots of praise when they don’t scratch. This will encourage them.
Little steps deserve praise as they lead to big steps.
Remember...
Don’t worry if sometimes you still scratch.
Notice the times you don't scratch instead.
Let others know how you are doing.
Feeling more itchy than usual could be a sign you are having an eczema flare-up. See part 1 for a reminder on how to treat an eczema flare up.