But fortunately, you still have an excellent possibility to choose "the good" tax master.
Visas policy, it's a collective decision!
We are protecting against dangerous immigrants, crimes, etc.
Not at all, it's fabricated government bullshit. Read this book:
Thanks to governments, immigrants cannot come to my private property and work there!
Any EU passport is sufficiently good (but you don't want to have residency there).
And it'll be easier for you as a parent to obtain a residency and, later the citizenship in the given country
Avoid a country where citizenship means a tax-slavery!