King James Version

God has revealed the eternal nature of celestial marriage and the family as the source of our greatest joy.…our family is the focus of our greatest work and joy in this life; so will it be throughout all eternity.

RUSSELL M. NELSON

(Ensign, Nov., 2001)

LDS PERSEPCTIVE

THE FAMILY AND THE LDS CHURCH

  • 5,100: number of Family History Centers in 140 countries
  • 25: average number of weddings performed daily in the Salt Lake City Temple alone
  • 12 million: estimated number of annual endowments performed for the dead

WHY ALL THIS ATTENTION ON THE FAMILY?

Prophetic Revelation

POPULAR EXPRESSION

Popular Expression

Popular Expression in Song

Families Can Be Together Forever

I Love to See the Temple

Love at Home

Popular Expression in ART

POPULAR EXPRESSION IN MEDIA

www.comeuntochrist.org/beliefs/family/forever-families/

Stop: Let’s INTERACT

STOP: Let’s interact

  • Are there other popular expressions of family that you would add to our list?
  • What has your family experience been like inside the LDS church?
  • Now let’s talk about the doctrine underlying the emphasis on eternal families.

PROPHETIC REVELATION

The Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-Day Saints. Doctrine and Covenants 132. Retrieved April 22, 2020 from https://www.churchofjesuschrist.org/study/scriptures/dc-testament/dc/132?lang=eng

BEGAN WITH JOSEPH SMITH

D&C 132:4

The Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-Day Saints. Doctrine and Covenants 132. Retrieved April 22, 2020 from https://www.churchofjesuschrist.org/study/scriptures/dc-testament/dc/132?lang=eng

BEGAN WITH JOSEPH SMITH

D&C 132:19

The Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-Day Saints. Doctrine and Covenants 132. Retrieved April 22, 2020 from https://www.churchofjesuschrist.org/study/scriptures/dc-testament/dc/132?lang=eng

BEGAN WITH JOSEPH SMITH

D&C 132:20

The Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-Day Saints. Retrieved April 22, 2020 from https://www.churchofjesuschrist.org/study/new-era/1971/06/presidents-of-the-church-speak-on-temple-marriage?lang=eng

CONTINUED BY LDS PROPHETS

HEBER J. GRANT

The Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-Day Saints. Retrieved April 22, 2020 from https://www.churchofjesuschrist.org/study/manual/the-latter-day-saint-woman-basic-manual-for-women-part-a/gospel-principles-and-doctrine/lesson-10-eternal-marriage?lang=eng

CONTINUED BY LDS PROPHETS

SPENCER W. KIMBELL

The Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-Day Saints. Retrieved April 22, 2020 from https://www.churchofjesuschrist.org/study/manual/the-family-a-proclamation-to-the-world/the-family-a-proclamation-to-the-world?lang=eng

CONTINUED BY LDS PROPHETS

THE FAMILY: A PROCLAMATION TO THE WORLD

FAMILIES CAN BE TOGETHER
FOREVER: PROBLEMS

FAMILIES CAN BE TOGETHER

FOREVER: PROBLEMS

  • It contradicts Joseph Smith.

The Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-Day Saints. Retrieved April 22, 2020 from https://www.churchofjesuschrist.org/study/scriptures/bofm/alma/11?lang=eng

ONLY ONE GOD

ALMA 11:26–29

FAMILIES CAN BE TOGETHER

FOREVER: PROBLEMS

  • It contradicts Joseph Smith.
  • It contradicts Jesus.

Jesus answered and said unto them, Ye do err, not knowing the scriptures, nor the power of God. For in the resurrection they neither marry, nor are given in marriage, but are as the angels of God in heaven (Matthew 22:29–30).

FAMILIES CAN BE TOGETHER

FOREVER: PROBLEMS

  • It contradicts Joseph Smith.
  • It contradicts Jesus.
  • It contradicts God.

Ye are my witnesses, saith the LORD, and my servant whom I have chosen: that ye may know and believe me, and understand that I am he: before me there was no God formed, neither shall there be after me (Isaiah 43:10).

Born-Again
Perspective

John Piper

What if you could go to heaven someday, and you would have perfect health, perfect mental presence, no depression anymore, all the friends you want there, and every kind of leisure you can imagine, but Jesus is not there. Would that be okay? And it’s scary how many people think, “That’s kind of what I thought heaven was.” That’s not what heaven is. Jesus is heaven. If you are trying to receive Jesus as a way to get what you want—but not him—you’re not receiving Jesus. You’re using Jesus.

“RIGHT WITH GOD, RIGHT WITH MAN,” A MESSAGE JOHN PIPER PREACHED AT A CONFERENCE IN ORLANDO.

Stop: Let’s INTERACT

STOP: Let’s interact

  • Does the concept of eternal families accurately describe your view of eternity? If not, why not?
  • Have you ever studied the Bible’s view of God’s family? If so, what did you find?

LET’s DISCOVER GOD’S FAMILY

REVIEW: GOD IS EXCLUSIVE

God is God alone forevermore.

I am the LORD, and there is none else, there is. no God beside me: I girded thee, though thou hast not known me: That they may know from the rising of the sun, and from the west, that there is none beside me. I am the LORD, and there is none else (Isaiah 45:5–6).

 

For of him, and through him, and to him, are all things: to whom be glory for ever. Amen (Romans 11:36).

REVIEW: GOD IS THE CREATOR

God created everything—marriage and family included.

Thus saith God the LORD, he that created the heavens, and stretched them out; he that spread forth the earth, and that which cometh out of it… (Isaiah 42:5)

 

Therefore shall a man leave his father and his mother, and shall cleave unto his wife: and they shall be one flesh (Genesis 2:24).

REVIEW: GOD IS THE CREATOR

God created everything—marriage and family included.

 

Lo, children are an heritage of the LORD: and the fruit of the womb is his reward. As arrows are in the hand of a mighty man; so are. children of the youth. Happy is the man that hath his quiver full of them: they shall not be ashamed, but they shall speak with the enemies in the gate (Psalm 127:3–5).

  • Since God is God alone forevermore, we will never equal nor surpass him.
  • Gender, marriage, and family are all God’s to define.

REVIEW: IMPLICATIONS OF GOD’S NATURE

GOD HAS A FAMILY

He invites you to join his family:

BY BIRTH

BY ADOPTION

BY MARRIAGE

BY BIRTH

BORN OF THE SPIRIT

YOU MUST BE BORN AGAIN…

To enter God’s family.

… Nicodemus, a ruler of the Jews: The same came to Jesus by night, and said unto him, Rabbi, we know that thou art a teacher come from God: for no man can do these miracles that thou doest, except God be with him. Jesus answered and said unto him, Verily, verily, I say unto thee, Except a man be born again, he cannot see the kingdom of God … Verily, verily, I say unto thee, Except a man be born of water and of the Spirit, he cannot enter into the kingdom of God. That which is born of the flesh is flesh; and that which is born of the Spirit is spirit (John 3:1–6).

YOU MUST BE BORN AGAIN…

To enter God’s family.

 

Blessed be the God and Father of our Lord Jesus Christ, which according to his abundant mercy hath begotten us again unto a lively hope by the resurrection of Jesus Christ from the dead, To an inheritance incorruptible, and undefiled, and that fadeth not away, reserved in heaven for you (1 Peter 1:3–4).

YOU MUST BE BORN AGAIN…

Because Adam plunged all mankind into sin.

 

Wherefore, as by one man sin entered into the world, and death by sin; and so death passed upon all men, for that all have sinned (Romans 5:12).

YOU MUST BE BORN AGAIN…

Because sinners are by nature children of wrath.

 

And you hath he quickened, who were dead in trespasses and sins; Wherein in time past ye walked according to the course of this world, according to the prince of the power of the air, the spirit that now worketh in the children of disobedience: Among whom also we all had our conversation in times past in the lusts of our flesh, fulfilling the desires of the flesh and of the mind; and were by nature the children of wrath, even as others (Ephesians 2:1–3).

YOU MUST BE BORN AGAIN…

Because sinners are by nature children of wrath.

 

In this the children of God are manifest, and the children of the devil: whosoever doeth not righteousness is not of God, neither he that loveth not his brother (1 John 3:10).

YOU MUST BE BORN AGAIN…

Through faith on account of God’s mercy.

 

But after that the kindness and love of God our Saviour toward man appeared, Not by works of righteousness which we have done, but according to his mercy he saved us, by the washing of regeneration, and renewing of the Holy Ghost (Titus 3:4–5).

YOU MUST BE BORN AGAIN…

Through faith on account of God’s mercy.

 

And as Moses lifted up the serpent in the wilderness, even so must the Son of man be lifted up: That whosoever believeth in him should not perish, but have eternal life. For God so loved the world, that he gave his only begotten Son, that whosoever believeth in him should not perish, but have everlasting life (John 3:14–16).

  • God graciously invites you into his family by (re)birth (John 3:3).
  • God says you cannot be (re)born by works of righteousness (Titus 3:4–5).

BORN AGAIN: CONCLUSIONS

  • God causes people to be born into his family by the Spirit when they repent put their faith in Christ alone (John 3:16).

BY ADOPTION

Adoption as sons

ADOPTION AS SONS

God redeems and adopts sinners.

 

But when the fulness of the time was come, God sent forth his Son, made of a woman, made under the law, To redeem them that were under the law, that we might receive the adoption of sons (Galatians 4:4–5).

ADOPTION AS SONS

Sinners who receive adoption become children of God.

 

For ye have not received the spirit of bondage again to fear; but ye have received the Spirit of adoption, whereby we cry, Abba, Father. The Spirit itself beareth witness with our spirit, that we are the children of God (Romans 8:15–16).

ADOPTION AS SONS

Sinners receive adoption by faith.

 

But as many as received him, to them gave he power to become the sons of God, even to them that believe on his name  (John 1:12).

 

For ye are all the children of God by faith in Christ Jesus (Galatians 3:26).

  • God is willing to purchase your adoption at the cost of his Son’s life (Galatians 4:4–5).
  • God’s adoption grants the privileges of Christ Jesus (Romans 8:15–17).

ADOPTION AS SONS: CONCLUSIONS

  • God adopts all those who put their faith in his Son’s sacrifice (John 1:12).

BY MARRIAGE

BRIDE OF CHRIST

THE BRIDE OF CHRIST

Human marriage is intended to picture Christ and the Church.
 

Husbands, love your wives, even as Christ also loved the church, and gave himself for it; That he might sanctify and cleanse it with the washing of water by the word, That he might present it to himself a glorious church, not having spot, or wrinkle, or any such thing; but that it should be holy and without blemish (Ephesians 5:25–27).

THE BRIDE OF CHRIST

Human marriage is a lifelong union, rather than an eternal one.

 

And Jesus answering said unto them, The children of this world marry, and are given in marriage: But they which shall be accounted worthy to obtain that world, and the resurrection from the dead, neither marry, nor are given in marriage: Neither can they die any more: for they are equal unto the angels; and are the children of God, being the children of the resurrection (Luke 20:34–36).

THE BRIDE OF CHRIST

Human marriage is temporary; marriage to the Lamb is eternal.

 

Let us be glad and rejoice, and give honour to him: for the marriage of the Lamb is come, and his wife hath made herself ready. And to her was granted that she should be arrayed in fine linen, clean and white: for the fine linen is the righteousness of saints. And he saith unto me, Write, Blessed are they which are called unto the marriage supper of the Lamb. And he saith unto me, These are the true sayings of God (Revelation 19:7–9).

THE BRIDE OF CHRIST

In this eternal marriage, Christ is the groom.

 

And Jesus said unto them, Can the children of the bridechamber fast, while the bridegroom is with them? as long as they have the bridegroom with them, they cannot fast. But the days will come, when the bridegroom shall be taken away from them, and then shall they fast in those days (Mark 2:19–20).

THE BRIDE OF CHRIST

In this eternal marriage, God’s people are the bride.

 

And I John saw the holy city, new Jerusalem, coming down from God out of heaven, prepared as a bride adorned for her husband. And I heard a great voice out of heaven saying, Behold, the tabernacle of God is with men, and he will dwell with them, and they shall be his people, and God himself shall be with them, and be their God (Revelation 21:2–3).

  • In the eternal state, people will not marry one another (Luke 20:34–36).
  • They will not marry one another because they will be married to Christ (Revelation 21:2–3).

THE BRIDE OF CHRIST: CONCLUSIONS

  • Modern-day marriage pictures the message of Christ crucified (Ephesians 5:25–27)

LESSON CONCLUSIONS

  • The Bible invites you to join God’s family by new birth, by adoption as sons, and by marriage to the Lamb.
  • Many Latter-day Saints are disappointed to learn that the Bible contradicts “eternal families.”

DISCOVERING GOD’S FAMILY
CONCLUSIONS

  • This disappointment is a problem of perspective. Consider the following two quotes.

Born-Again
Perspective

JONATHAN EDWARDS

“The enjoyment of God is the only happiness with which our souls can be satisfied. To go to heaven, fully to enjoy God, is infinitely better than the most pleasant accommodations here. Fathers and mothers, husbands, wives, or children, or the company of earthly friends, are but shadows; but God is the substance. These are but scattered beams, but God is the sun. These are but streams. But God is the ocean.”

The Works of Jonathan Edwards,
Vol. 17: Sermons and Discourses, 1730-1733

Born-Again
Perspective

JOHN PIPER

“If you don’t see the greatness of God, then all the things that money can buy become very exciting. If you can’t see the sun, you will be impressed with a street light. If you’ve never felt thunder and lightening you’ll be impressed with fireworks. And if you turn your back on the greatness and majesty of God you’ll fall in love with a world of shadows and short-lived pleasures.”

sermon on Malachi 1:6-14, November 1, 1987, www.DesiringGod.org

  • The Creator and Sustainer of all things invites you to join His family by faith alone in Christ alone.
  • Will you join him and accept his eternal reward?

DISCOVERING GOD’S FAMILY
CONCLUSIONS

MATTHEW 19:28–29

And Jesus said unto them, Verily I say unto you, That ye which have followed me, in the regeneration when the Son of man shall sit in the throne of his glory, ye also shall sit upon twelve thrones, judging the twelve tribes of Israel. And every one that hath forsaken houses, or brethren, or sisters, or father, or mother, or wife, or children, or lands, for my name’s sake, shall receive an hundredfold, and shall inherit everlasting life.

THANK YOU!