That’s a helpful gauge to ascertain if labor is near (although sometimes we even get that wrong).
But with the unknown span of Gola, we’ll be really struggling to discern the final pangs of Geula from other pains along the way.
That’s why the Prophets have spoken, and our Sages have defined, the actual signs indicating we’re going into the labor of Geula.
Once the baby is engaged in position, there’s no way back.
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The Cause - Not the Symptoms
Birth-pangs are no good.
Let’s pray for them to go away!
No, silly. The contractions are there because something (wonderful) is coming out. Why don’t you pray for the birth to happen?!
Then (and only then) will she – please G-d – be well again.
No one enjoys the pains that mark the end of Gola.
But the only way to cure them is to treat their underlying cause – the coming of Moshiach – not to fight the symptoms as if they were a separate problem.
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Gola is Unbearable
The baby will need to come out one day – yeah, we know that.
Already?? (See, you did need reminders!)
Ok, but why unfriendly reminders? And why so tormenting?
Because the baby needs to come out now, you get it? We don’t want you to bear it any longer. Now, push!
The end of Gola is its ugliest. Extremely unfriendly.
It should be unbearable. We need you to want to come out of it. To help push the Geula through.
BTW this overpowering feeling need not be a result of personal misfortune. It’s the mental state of frustration with Gola that we’re after.
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Birth-Pangs are Extreme
The womb keeps the baby inside.
At labor, the womb is still trying to do this same old job.
But the baby is extricating...
So the womb contracts its hardest.
That’s why the pain is so severe.
Geula has been cooking in the background all along the Gola.
But well covered.
Once it’s time, The Geula is pushing through.
So Gola is stretching itself to the limit to keep concealing.
Hence the pangs of birth are so acute.
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Prolonged Labor Pains
The baby is about to come out – how exciting!
Why is it taking so long now?! How frustrating!
Wait a minute – why the sudden excitement and frustration? Isn’t birth a gradual process?
Yeah but before, birth was a thing of the future (and there was no pain).
Now the baby is ready to come out (and every moment is terrible)!
Pleasure (excitement) and anguish (frustration) are anonyms.
Geula, its long-awaited coming, is the biggest pleasure.
For us, and for On-High.
Before, when it wasn’t time, delays were “deemed” acceptable.
As the Geula is finally eventuating, nothing should be standing in its way now.
So any delay of the Geula then, results in much more anguish than ever before.
Hence the uniquely extreme Birth Pangs of Moshiach.