I believe that this is the core of the disfunction in a lot of cases when there is mental disorder. Its strange but when you look at things from this perspective it seems easy to rationalise the maladaptive patterns. It makes easier to access the compassionate frame. Maybe this is what the buddhists mean by every suffering?
Regardless of size, shape, color or background, there is one thing that all people in the world have in common: suffering. This truth was discovered by Buddha while he experienced the world as royalty and as a simple wandering monk.
If you need to heal well long term, it's important to realise that there is no way around. The only way forwards is through.
Kintsugi is a centuries-old Japanese art of repairing broken pottery and transforming it into a new work of art with gold, the traditional metal used in Kintsugi. The name of the technique is derived from the words “Kin” (golden) and “tsugi” (joinery), which translate to mean “golden repair.” The scars and cracks of the broken ceramic become the focus and turn the object into something unique and exquisite.