is real
- We avoid things we don't like
- Everything we do is to enjoy and avoid pain
- Low energy Spirals
- The world is working towards our addictions
- No one ever liked to be in uncomfortable zone
- Fighting a psychological war without weapons
1. Attention and awareness
2. Rest. Active. Open.
3. Rumination Vs Reflection
4. Willpower
5. Mental Gym
Awareness test
Rumination & Reflection
Solution: RSF- Relentless Solution Focus (+1)
Walter Michelle Marchello test
Research on Meditators
The connections between parts of their brain that's tied to wandering thoughts and the thoughts that can disengage from wandering thoughts is stronger in meditators.
Put your attention back.
Dump or Deligate the rest
1. Be Aware
2. Use tools to fight it, accept mind is not enough.
Example:
- News feed blocker chrome plugin
- Rescue Time
- Iphone screen time data
3. Hold yourself accountable.