- a recipe for managing well-being in today's busy world
On a scale of 1 to 10 how energised do you feel during the week on average?
Do you start your week well, but as the week goes on, your energy goes down?
Do you often use weekends to recover from the week?
By looking holistically at where your energy goes
Physical
Emotional
Spiritual
Mental
A lack of fitness, poor sleep habits, or working too many hours will leave you sleepwalking through your life.
An inability to manage your emotions, particularly under pressure, and a drop in self confidence, can weigh you down with unnecessary stress.
A lack of planning or poor prioritisation will drain your energy reserves and play havoc with your focus.
If you don’t love what you’re doing or feel connected to a purpose, then you won’t have that bedrock of internal energy to support you.
A good starting point is to figure out which area you are weakest in
The app provides a questionnaire you can fill in that will tell you.
Pick ONE area to work on
Creating new habits needs a high level of willpower
Willpower comes from the most easily exhaustible part of our brain, the Pre Frontal Cortex (PFC)
Our PFC makes decisions and
solves problems
When it's knackered, our willpower fails
At the core of every habit is a neurological loop that consists of three parts:
You wake up in the morning and think:
‘Right this evening when I get back from work, I’m not going to reach for a beer and slob out in front of the TV, instead I shall go for a run’.
The Cue is getting home from work
The Routine is the behaviour of reaching for the beer
The Reward is feeling relaxed and de-stressed after a hard day at work.
Identify the Cue to any unhealthy habits (or routines) we are trying to replace
Understand what Reward we are craving
Try a different Routine (or behaviour) that will give you the same reward.
Don't overload your brain in the first place
Make a small step, you can build from there
In the previous example, is going for a run going to give you the relaxed feeling you are craving?
What could?
It takes 28 - 66 days to create a new habit - long term commitment
Pick times when your brain is not completely knackered
In your diary, plan what you are going to do and when you are going to do it, weeks out into the future.