Just about every adult male has had some highly personal experience with masturbation. Although some men do claim never to have engaged in sexual self-fondling, they are definitely very much in the minority. Whether a man engages as part of his penis care routine or whether he simply enjoys the sensations associated with the activity, masturbation is a big part of most men’s lives. Depending on how one defines it, mutual masturbation may not occupy such a large role in most men’s lives – and so there may be many who wish to consider it.
What is it?
What exactly is meant by mutual masturbation? There is some debate on this topic.
To some people, mutual masturbation is defined as two or more people being in the same space, with each one masturbating him- or herself or masturbating each other. (In the internet age, many people would expand that definition to include people who are not in the same room but who are connected to each other via computer cameras and/or microphones.) In these scenarios, it doesn’t matter whether the individuals keep their touching to themselves or whether they reach out and stroke another individual.
Other people would consider it mutual masturbation only if they stroked each other at least sometimes. (In this case, refraining from touching one another would be simultaneous but not mutual masturbation.) Still others would expand this definition so that it counted as mutual masturbation only if the activity did not also include oral sex or penetration. The thinking behind this last definition is that mutual masturbation combined with oral and penetrative sex falls under the larger umbrella term of “sex” rather than specific mutual masturbation.
For the purposes of this piece, the term will mean two or more people who masturbate together and for at least part of the time touch each other’s genitals. There’s no other form of sex involved in the activity, but instead two people are exploring each other’s bodies through masturbation.
Things to consider
Although many people masturbate each other as part of foreplay or afterplay, it’s less common for two people to commit to a sexual session that involves only mutual masturbation. For that reason, here are some things a person may want to consider:
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