Choose a relatively quiet moment to select a dish and place it in an empty sink. Just look at the dish for a moment and become aware of the color, shape, and texture of the dish. You may become aware that other thoughts come into your mind while performing this exercise. This is inevitably going to happen because numerous thoughts come and go in our head all day, every day. Simply notice them, notice the tendency to fight them, and let them be. Gently bring yourself back to the task of focusing on the physical aspects of the dish.
Now, pick up the dish and allow comfortably warm water to pass over it. Notice the sensations of the water, its temperature, and the feel of the dish as the water passes over it. Once again, you are likely to notice a variety of thoughts unrelated to this task. If so, please notice without judging them as good or bad, right or wrong, but simply an activity in your mind that comes and goes like waves intermittently hitting a shore. The specific thoughts you are having do not matter, just your ability to notice and focus on the feelings and sensations that the water and the dish create. Allow yourself to feel the sensations in more and more detail. In this way, you continually strengthen your concentration.
Now, wash the dish with whatever mild detergent you normally use and become aware of the additional sensations of smell and touch that emerge from this activity. As you continue to mindfully wash this dish, notice any external sounds and any internal thoughts as though they are simply words or symbols on a ticker tape and gently bring your attention back to the task of washing the dish. Having a variety of thoughts is normal; be patient with yourself. The fact of the matter is the mind will always tend to wander. Remain in the moment with washing the dish and you will increasingly enhance your attention.
After about 5 minutes, wipe off the dish, and stop the water.
Meditation :)
This brief exercise will help you focus on the immediate moment. You will also begin the process of developing the skill of mindful attention. This exercise should take you about 5 minutes to complete. As with any other exercise or activity, before you start, remember that success requires the development of specific skills, and a commitment to working on the development of these skills is the first step to success.
Please find a comfortable sitting position. Notice the position of your feet, arms, and hands. Allow your eyes to close gently. [pause 10 seconds] Breathe in and out gently and deeply several times. Notice the sound and feel of your own breath as you breathe in and out. [pause 10 seconds]
At this time, focus your attention on your surroundings. Notice any sounds that may be occurring. What sounds are occurring inside the room? What sounds are occurring outside the room? [pause 10 seconds] Now focus your attention on the areas where your body touches the chair in which you are sitting. Notice the physical sensations that occur from this contact. [pause 10 seconds] Now notice the spot where your hands are touching the front of your legs. [pause 10 seconds] Now notice any sensations that may be occurring in the rest of your body and notice how they may change over time without any effort on your part. [pause 10 seconds] Don’t try to alter these sensations; just notice them as they occur. [pause 10 seconds]
Now, let your thoughts focus on why you have chosen to pursue this program. [pause 10 seconds] See if you can notice any doubts or other thoughts without doing anything but noticing them. Just notice your reservations, concerns, and worries as though they are elements of a parade passing through your mind. [pause 10 seconds] See if you can simply notice them and acknowledge their presence. [pause 10 seconds] Don’t try to make them go away or change them in any way. [pause 10 seconds] Now allow yourself to focus on what you want your performance life to be about. What is most important to you? What do you want to do with your skills? [pause 10 seconds]
Remain comfortable for a few more moments and slowly let yourself focus once again on any sounds and movements occurring around you. [pause 10 seconds] Once again notice your own breathing. [pause 10 seconds] When you are ready, open your eyes and notice that you feel focused and attentive.
Coffee challenge - Before, During, After
You experience physical reactions to internal states.
By paying attention, you make them into reality.