Alfrida. My father called her Freddie.
Alex
Joe
Patricia
Nico
Martinez
Sweeney
Andersen
Jan
Main Characters
as a Canadian citizen
of a patriarchal society
Ontario Premier Mitchell Hepburn with the Dionne Quintuplets
three of the winners of the Toronto Stork Derby
describes books that were early forms of sex education
attempted to contain non-normative sexualities
however, sex manuals also brought sexuality into being
sexuality is something that children also engage in:
the narrator, at age 15 or 16, smoked a cigarette that Alfrida offered her
“They (the narrator’s parents) pretended that it was a great joke”
“Ordinarily [her] mother would say that she did not like to see a woman smoke”
Family (aunts, husbands, etc.): conventional
at the table: conversation food related
after dinner: division of public and private spheres
women: inside home, gossip, clean
men: outside home (on the porch), money investments and work
conversation at the table:
food (secondary, agreeable thing)
talk about public sphere (politics, humour, express opinions)
conversation with narrator in kitchen:
But it's my parents' stuff. It's family furnishings, and I couldn't let them go.
But the biggest difference was that she had gotten false teeth, of a uniform color, slightly overfilling her mouth and giving an anxious edge to her old expression of slapdash eagerness.
My parents would have been united in this. My mother had a horror of irregular sex or flaunted sex—of any sex, you might say, for the proper married kind was not acknowledged at all—and my father too judged these matters strictly at the time in his life.
It was kept one hundred percent secret that she had me.
I began to feel happy. Such happiness, to be alone.
Questions and Comments?
One day, they were out in the fields of stubble playing with my father's dog, whose name was Mack. That day the sun shone, but did not melt the ice in the furrows. They stomped on the ice and enjoyed its crackle underfoot.
You know Alfrida told me that your dad and her were walking home from school one day, this was in high school. They couldn't walk all the way together because, you know, in those days, a boy and a girl, they would just get teased something terrible.
Do you think that there is significance in Alice Munro writing Alfrida as not growing up with a mother? Could there be a correlation with not growing up with her biological mother and her non-conformity?
What is the purpose of Alfrida?
She said you were smart, but you weren't ever quite as smart as you thought you were.
This was what I wanted, this was what I thoug'ht I had to pay attention to, this was how I wanted my life to be.