If you don’t know what you want to achieve – can you achieve it?
The pre-requisite to achieving anything is gaining an ability to define it clearly. The law is – you will not achieve what you can not define.
So, you want your child to be successful – what is success?
Now… I am sure you will think of all kinds of examples of successful people or actions, but it is not the definition of the word success and before you will be able to define it - you will not reach it for your child AND for YOU!