small glass/big glass
cup with a hole in it
do you know where you are going?
B.E.S.T.
sources of beliefs
parents
Our place in society
prejudices
religion
our capabilities
capacity for love
beliefs about money
ideas about education
beliefs on morality
courage or fear
How to treat people
THINGS LEARNED FROM FRIENDS, and other sources
Fitting in, or not fitting in
Personal value
popularity
""FREE""
media/Society
things we
learned from the media
The way we view ourselves
desires
ideas of beauty
ideas of manhood
the media
- 31 Online
- 17 hours of listening to music
- 3 hours of watching movies
- 4 hours of reading magazines
- 20 hours watching TV
beliefs come from words and images of what we believe should be
""A letter to my young self""
Beliefs
bEliefs
my mind
get up!
it's not over
take control of your mind
Sad eyes
michael jackson
the light
the light
Turn the light back on!
will smith
dick fosbury
dick fosbury
rocky
Denzel washington
BELIEFS
How the mind works
Scotoma
How the mind works
how the mind works
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Perception Through Our Senses
- Association
- Evaluation
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Making Decisions
How the mind works
- Stores Everything.
- Carries Our True Feelings About Ourselves.
- Stores Every Event Whether Positive or Negative.
- Stores our feelings/emotions about things.
- Filing Cabinet for Our Beliefs.
why get control?
- We produce and reproduce on the level of our expectation.
- Our effectiveness is capped at our belief level.
- Self-concept and self-image determine quality of life.
wally amos
Facebook message
December 27, 2011 1:24 pm
wally amos
manifestation
manifestation
ben underwood
Ben underwood
I met this young man many years ago, at a convention where Mr. Rodney Allgoodintroduced Ben and his family.
chaka
oprah winfrey
facebook post
oprah & chaka
key points on beliefs
- Beliefs comes from thoughts and images of what we think should be.
- Vow to get the "light" back.
- Turn IMPOSSIBLE to IM-POSSIBLE.
- Scotomas blind us from truth.
- Conscious mind makes associations and evaluations.
- Sub-conscious is where are beliefs are stored.
- Sub-conscious carries our true feelings about everything.
- Our effectiveness is capped at our belief level.
- The creative sub-conscious matches our inner beliefs and our outer world.
emotions
emotions
- Life's most dominant factor
- Emotions are the fuel and catalyst to achievement or failure
- Potential is increased or limited by how we FEEL about things
- Emotion puts the power in FEAR
- Our attitude is our emotional disposition towards any subject matter
- To reach a goal, we must be in alignment with it the goal, and feel good about the goal itself
- Discipline is not enough for permanent change
- We are motivated be two things PLEASURE or PAIN
- Infuse positive emotions to the things that we want
15 things the emotionally strong don't do
1. THEY DON'T BEG FOR ATTENTION
2. They Don’t Allow Others To Bring Them Down
3. THEY DON'T HOLD GRUDGES
4. They Never Stop Doing Their Own Thing
5. THEY ALWAYS BELIEVE IN THEMSELVES
6. They Don’t Act Like jerks
7. They Know Better Than To Let Just Anyone Into Their Lives
8. THEY ARE NOT AFRAID OF LOVE 9. They’re Not Afraid Of Slowing Down
10. THEY DON'T DREAD THE DAY AHEAD
11. THEY DON'T DO THE THINGS THE DON'T WANT TO DO
12. THEY HAVE NO PROBLEM SAYING "NO'
14. THEY DON'T NEED TO FIT IN
15. THEY KNOW HAPPINESS IS A CHOICE
controlling emotions
forgive
FORGIVENESS by rodney Allgood
Can we forgive? Can we let it go? Shall we hold on to the hurt, let resentment grow?
Is someone truly evil, for an offensive word? Maybe what they meant, was not what you heard
A misunderstanding might be all it's about., but is it worth all the poison coming from your mouth?
Carrying this only hurts you. Revenge....will only make this more true
Maybe its damage done to you in the past, a few decades are enough, or do you wish it to last?
Forgiveness…..a word, people mistake it for weak, as ego appears strong, but true strength is meek
Better to be humble, and let it all go . You’ll leave more space for your mind to grow
Forgiveness is there for us all to use. Forgiveness added love, a pair that can never lose
Mahatma Gandhi
Forgive others
ask for forgiveness
Forgive yourself
live in gratitude
THANK YOU by rodney Allgood
TAKE A MINUTE, LOOK AROUND YOU, IT’S HARD TO IGNORE ALL THE THINGS IN LIFE THAT WE SHOULD BE GRATEFUL FOR
THE SUNRISE IN THE MORNING, THE BIRDS THAT SING, ALL THE JOY THAT THE LAUGHTER OF A CHILD CAN BRING
THE ENDLESS OCEAN, THE GLORIOUS SKY, THE LIST GOES ON FOREVER IF WE REALLY TRY
A HOME-COOKED MEAL, THE ROOF OVER OUR HEAD A GOOD NIGHTS SLEEP ON A KING SIZE BED
THE FAMILY THAT LOVES US, THE FRIENDS THAT CARE THE GOD-GIVEN TALENTS THAT WE WERE BORN TO SHARE
THE MAGNIFICENT MOUNTAINS THAT PEAK IN THE CLOUDS THE WAY WE FEEL WHEN WE LAUGH OUT LOUD
A PIANO…….A BASS……. A SAXOPHONE CREATE BEAUTIFUL SOUNDS WHEN WE’RE CHILLIN’ ALONE
A STRANGERS SMILE, A CHIVALROUS MAN, BUYING FRESH PICKED FRUIT FROM A ROADSIDE STAND
A NEW BORN BABY, WITH THAT NEW BABY SMELL., OLD FOLKS THAT WE LOVE, WITH THE STORIES THEY TELL
LIFE IS FILLED WITH GIFTS, THERE IS NOTHING MORE TRUE TAKE A MOMENT EACH DAY, SAY THE WORDS…..THANK YOU.
live in contribution
key points - emotions
- Life's most dominant factor.
- The fuel for success or failure.
- Infuse emotions into the things that to want.
- Forgiveness helps to defuse negative emotions.
- Gratitude helps to keep positive emotions.
- What if we woke up tomorrow with only the the we are grateful for today.
- Contribution keeps our emotions in a good state.
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Self talk
self talk
controlling self talk
- Self correct by not accepting the behavior, but do not condemn yourself
- Visualize yourself doing things differently
- Visualize, and FEEL the results of doing things the right way
- When falling short say "I am better than that!"
- Assignment- No negative affirmations for 24 hours. No sarcasm, no put downs
- Dwell on a few of your successes
- Tell yourself over and over again " I have GREATNESS INSIDE OF ME!"
muhammad ali
Self esteem
self esteem
Low Esteem
- Conversation started November 25
Hi Rodney, Thanks for accepting my friend request. I don't know if you remember me it's been such a long time since graduation. We attended Elementary all the way to high school together. I was the girl no one wanted to know. Anyways I am glad that life has been good to you and that God will continue to bless you and your family. I saw you the other week at fort st. mall, i was taking my lunch break. Well i guess now you can delete me as your friend. See you around May : )
- Rodney Allgood
Hello there! No, I won't delete you, I only delete negative people...lol. Yes its been a very very long time since school, I get very foggy with names, but I usually remember better with a last name too. So what was your maiden last name? Im sure I'll remember, with that, especially we went to school together, since grade school. What a great memory you have if you recognized me after all this time! Wow!
My maiden name was polendey, short filipino girl. See back then i was the outsider who new people's faces and names. I guess you know by the way i am talking that i was not one of the popular girls.
Low esteem
accept compliments
learn to love yourself
perfect just as you are
Key points - self talk
- SELF TALK creates SELF IMAGE, that create your PERFORMANCE
- Condemn the bad behavior not yourself as a person
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Dwell of prior successful moments in your life
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Say to yourself "I have greatness within
- Accept compliments
- Learn to love yourself
""our life expresses the result of our dominant thoughts""
negative
positive
Masaru Emoto
using positive affirmations
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MAKE IT PERSONAL : Write your affirmations with the word "I" in them. They are only for you, so it MUST be personal. Change will only happen because of you, and what you do. The picture you will begin to see because of your affirmations.
- KEEP IT POSITIVE : Vividly describe what you want in the affirmation. Describe what you want to steer toward, and not away from, what would it look like if you had it now.
using affirmations
Using affirmations
Affirmations
- We behave like the person you know ourselves to be
- We must change the idea of who we are on our sub- conscience level
- If written correctly, imagery should be created
- The sub conscience does not know the difference from reality and vivid imagination
- Best time for affirmations is before sleep, and when first waking, although the more reps the better
3 step process
3. Let in the corresponding emotion (remember,emotion is the fuel)
mastering visualization
see it!
see it!
see it!
key points - thoughts
- Life reflects our most dominant thoughts.
- Remember the negative affects on water, and we are made up mostly of water.
- Repetition is the mother of learning, the father of action, architect of of accomplishment.
- The power of properly written affirmations.
- We are what we think.
Greatness
greatness
Greatness
greatness
Greatness
Harmony
harmony
chinese bamboo
chinese bamboo
tyler Perry
the breakthrough!!!
"" in the blink of an eye""
Creating the B.E.S.T. YOU 3 hr. seminar version
By Rodney Allgood
Creating the B.E.S.T. YOU 3 hr. seminar version
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